♥ (Monday, September 20, 2010 / 2:40 PM)
Don't be upset when he did not fulfill his promise, because you didn't fulfil yours too.
Dont hurt him when he fails you or insist your way, because it is you who think he failed you, but for the fact you're the one who failed him. As much as it disappoints him, it has already hurt his pride that he cant give you what you wish for. Have patience, because he will surprise you one day.(maybe trust u one day?)
Dont compare him with someone else, the others that you think of ain't even in comparison with him, so don't bother comparing him with some shit. Think about what are the wonderful things he has done for this relationship which others have not.
Dont expect too much in material fulfillment from other guys just because they look rich from their attire, because what you see isn't what you think. You should understand this point well.
Dont ignore him when you have company, because you ignore him, he'll really give you one times good one, making sure you'd never ever think of ignoring him the next time.
When you quarrel, be the first to apologise no matter what because its ultimately your fault and not his. Love is about compromise and all, you never fulfil it, then apologise. be it respect his age or wadsmore, cannot lao lan with him during chats or conversations. when you lose him, you will realise you miss him scolding you.
Dont say words that hurt him even though he upsets you, because he was after all the man you have love and care for. Moreover, he's just being straightforward though he's very right about you.
Dont tell him you love him everyday. As you don't even mean what you preach, so save the words and provide actions instead.
Dont forget to praise him for all the wonderful things he has done, it takes alot of effort and time for him to find a way to make you smile. Think about it.
Dont be upset if he cant send you home or call you, he is not your ahmad, he can only send you home when he's free.So even if he don't send you home, please don't nag or complain.
Dont be upset if he can only send you by public transport, its not at all sia suay to take public transport. don't be materialistic.
Dont be angry if he provide comments that you dont find pleasant because only those who truly love you will be honest. And he means what he say!
Dont be upset with his parents, because you will realise without them, you will never have met him, and had your stuffs. (:
Dont be upset why you have to stay home with him and not have the opportunity to go out, because when you lost him, you will realise those malls or places you wanted to go are no longer a happy place, all you want is to have him beside you no matter where you are.even just doing nothing.
Dont leave him because you think you can find happiness in someone else. that's the last thing you'd ever wanna do. you realise no one other than him can withstand all the hardships with you.
Hug him tight and tell him you will never want to let go.
Respect, TRUST him, support him.
Hold his hands, kiss them & tell him these are the hands you want to hold for a life time.
Look into his eyes and tell him "Will you be my bf and be the love of my lifetime again."
"The best around might not be the best for you." - DTMY
